boundaries - i haz them

this is how i lost everything and regained myself all at the same time.

June, 27 2011 in self :: 3 comments :: read more

evolution - part 1: baby blissy

i've decided that i should probably start writing down some of the things i've been through in my life. i have my reasons, not the least of which is my fear of eventually forgetting something significant from my past and forgetting why i am the person that i am.

March, 19 2011 in evolution :: 1 comments :: read more

i am a tattoo snob

i will judge you based on your tattoos. i'll do it silently as long as you keep your mouth shut. once you start talking, tho, i am open to tell you exactly what i think. and i will.

March, 06 2011 in tattoo :: 2 comments :: read more


when there's no one to save you, you have to save yourself.

February, 12 2011 in self :: 1 comments :: read more

now that's fuckin metal

obviously, i wrote this last night. i wanted to wait for Paul's death to be announced by someone more official before i posted this.

February, 11 2011 in self :: 2 comments :: read more


-noun, the state of being enslaved to a habit or practice or to something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming, as narcotics, to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma.

February, 04 2011 in self :: 1 comments :: read more

i am a cliche

i learned something over the weekend. something about myself.

January, 25 2011 in self :: 2 comments :: read more

liar liar pants on fire

the shooting in arizona is nothing short of a tragedy.

my heart and best healing vibes go out to all of the families of lost and injured loved ones.

January, 10 2011 in political :: 0 comments :: read more

if you want to be a warrior...

before you can work for what you want.. you're going to have to slay a few of your own demons.

January, 06 2011 in self :: 0 comments :: read more

happy new year

i feel like i should be waxing poetic about the past year and decade.

January, 01 2011 in self :: 0 comments :: read more


i know, i've been slacking and somewhat unavailable in the world wide web as of late. don't panic tho. i'm not avoiding anything or dead in a ditch somewhere. here are my updates tho.

December, 08 2010 in self :: 1 comments :: read more


if we refuse to see our own flaws, we never learn a different way. and we never grow as humans. we never get any better than we are right now. this is the true sadness of this kind of mind set.

November, 06 2010 in self :: 1 comments :: read more

"a chance for both a mother and a father"

"There will always be exceptions, but the definition of marriage affects all American children," said Ashley Horne, federal policy analyst for CitizenLink, a policy arm of Focus on the Family. "A compassionate society promotes what is in their best interest, and that includes policies that would give every child a chance for both a mother and a father."

November, 02 2010 in parenting :: 2 comments :: read more

women don't like sex

christine o'donell is NOT me.

October, 31 2010 in self :: 0 comments :: read more

dear maura kelly

this is my own little letter to maura kelly of marie claire. i will not post a link to her article here because a) you've all already read it, and b) i hate the thought of my rambly little letter adding to its already atrocious hit count. but i will post my friend ginger's response to it - clickety.

October, 28 2010 in opinions :: 4 comments :: read more